Being pregnant, bringing new life into the world is one of the most treasured blessings a woman can experience, no matter what. Even more so if it’s a planned pregnancy and she’s is ready for the responsibility of raising a child. Otherwise, it can quickly become a whirlwind of emotions; as it was in my case.
I was 22, my life lay stretched out in front of me, and the last thing I’d expected was to be sitting in my doctor’s office discussing the first trimester of my pregnancy. This can’t be happening to me, yet it was. The day before I’d taken a home pregnancy test and waited in quiet desperation as the blood drained, my face went pale and cold sweat covered me; the test was positive, I was going to be a mom, “Oh my God”.
“Of course you’re pregnant,” my doctor said smiling, no need for a blood test, I can tell just looking at you. I must have presents a quizzical look, so he continued, “You’ve got acne on your chin, your test was positive, you’re the body is preparing itself for your pregnancy. My reaction? First disbelief, and then embarrassment as I touched my chin and said, “Oh that’s not acne, I have sensitive skin.” He smiled while making note in my chart. Next came realization, I was pregnant, and with acne to boot, this was not the way I expected my life to go. I wished there had been someone to guide me, warn me, explain the path I was walking whether or not I would have listened, who knows. Here are a few facts from someone who’s been there and yes, done that at 22, hopefully, it will help.